Saturday, January 2, 2016

I'm LOST

I've been ABSENT in my own life ..................

I've been Depressed !

Super depressed about so many things!

About the fact that I do not have a BIG house,

About the fact that I still do not have a PERMENANT job and am still on CONTRACT position

About the fact that life seems so incredibly HARD for me

About the fact that I do not have the reason for the question WHY ME?

About the fact that I HATE the fact aside from my kids and work I do not have any LIFE

About the fact that I have let myself slip weight wise.

Thankfully not too too much damage has been made!

I went to bed at 10 pm on NYE --yes 10 pm while the kids and hubby were still up,, cause I was TOO upset that we did not go PARTY anywhere!

I am a PARTY animal or so I remember in my life before having kids.

I miss my LIFE , I am not sure how or IF I will get it back.

and when I see other friends and family having all the FUN in the world and secretly wish it was my life, I know social media doesn't help in such times!

So  I decided to take a break from Facebook, will be more active on Instagram,

My resolution for this year is

Zero Junk Food
30 minutes exercise 5 days a week
Track everything
Blog 3 times a week
100 happy days

I need to be HAPPY ! Honestly though inside me I FEEL I do NOT DESERVE to be HAPPY

and That hurts a LOT-the fact that I feel I don't deserve it cause may be I sinned in my past life or something I'm not sure if all this is making any sense.!

I know I am all over the place but that is how I feel right now!

I am sorry to ruin your positive train,if you're on that roll all power to you , and I will understand if you do not want to follow me anymore!

TTYL

XOXO, Sheetal

6 comments:

  1. Just stumbled upon your blog. I'm sorry you are feeling this way. I've felt this way for quite some time....and I'm trying to get out of it and remember that I am in charge of my own destiny. I am the one that is writing the chapters to my future. It's not easy..but remember you are worth a happy future!!!!!

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  2. Just stumbled upon your blog. I'm sorry you are feeling this way. I've felt this way for quite some time....and I'm trying to get out of it and remember that I am in charge of my own destiny. I am the one that is writing the chapters to my future. It's not easy..but remember you are worth a happy future!!!!!

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    1. Thanks for stopping by! I agree, however sometimes find its easy in idea than in acting on it, atleast for me! One day at a time!

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  3. Shital,
    You have achieved so much in terms of personal fitness, you have beautiful 3 kids, you are living in an beautiful country, you have a job even though it is a contractual position, it is still a job and you get paid every month. I have friends who do not have kids and are trying desperately, I have friends whose visas will be expiring soon and their green card processing is stuck somewhere, I have friends who have lost jobs and are living with other families in their basements. Life is what we make of it my friend. Chin up and enjoy it! I did not go for any new year parties, stayed home, watched a movie and cuddled with my kids. It was bliss. I would kill to have your determination and motivation, you inspire people like me who have absolutely no fitness goals. I feel good when I read your posts about how you are close to achieving your goals. Do not lose heart. One day you will have a bigger mansion, a great job. Cheer up!

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    1. thank you so much for putting things in perspective for me! I needed just that!

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  4. Hi SHital,
    Haven't seen any posts from you, how are you doing??

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